Feelings

What happens, happens, and thats the great thing about life. You can't take it back. You shouldn't want to take it back, because you will either learn from it, or it will tear you down. Isn't that amazing. You know, being in college, a lot of people are worrying about relationships, and who they want to be with forever. Why? Well it's essential and it's the thing you can do in life rightnow. You can't be sitting around just hoping someone will pick you up, but at the same time they can. Don't be saying you like someone else but your dating another person. Actually forget, those last two sentences because you can do those things. I understand that none of this makes sense and that's exactly what I am trying to get at. Relationships and finding the person you want to be with forever don't make sense. Every marriage, every relationship, is completely different, so you can't be judging others for the way they put themselves out there. Not everyone has the same standards that you do. I learned in church today about being your own judge. We can't be judging people unrighteously. Everyone needs to help each other out.

An elder shared a story about how we was in a car accident. When the car was finished rolling, he was more worried about his date, than himself. Don't be worrying about others because it's probably most likely you that isn't making sense. I don't make sense a lot of the time and thats okay, but for those that know what I am saying, you understand. Basically don't be judging other people for their ideas and ways of doing things. Instead judge them according to how they treat people and the things they seem to do. That totally counteracts what I just said but what I mean is just don't judge unrighteously. Judge righteously. Here's an example. If someone dresses modestly but weird to you, don't worry about it. If someone is dressed up un-moddest then use righteous judging to know they just don't believe in being modest. Don't hate that person. Just teach them and love them just like the savior would love you. Help others throughout your life.